Monday, January 28, 2008

Prophet, Gordon B. Hinckley, Passes Away


Okay...I wasn't really planning on posting about this because most of you who read it obviously know Gordon B. Hinckley passed away yesterday evening, but then realized if I post about Heath Ledger dying I certainly need to mention the prophet. So, I was doing a little reading about him and thought I would post that on here in honor of a great man that was an amazing leader and wonderful role model for me.
Gordon B. Hinckley was the president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints for almost 13 years, as he was called as prophet in March of 1995. He was the first president of the church to travel to Spain to erect a temple in Madrid.
In an interview in 2005, he told the Associated Press: "The more people come to know us, the better they will understand us. We're a little different. We don't smoke. We don't drink. We do things in a little different way. That's not dishonorable. I believe that's to our credit."
The above quote shows why I loved his talks, respected his counsel, and adored him as our prophet. He was so simple in his talks, but the truths he spoke always seemed to stuck with me because of the way he delivered him. The way he spoke was so absolute and certain it was as though he's never questioned for a minute whether the gospel was true.
He was a beloved prophet and will be missed dearly.



Sunday, January 27, 2008

The Cold Season Has Arrived!


It's official: The cold season has formally arrived at the Simply Me household. I have the above picture in because Jake swears by it---he says it is soothing to take and helps him sleep, and doesn't leave him all groggy gross in the morning like other nighttime cold medicines can.
Three days ago Jake started sneezing, snoring (he only snores when he's sick...aren't I lucky?), and coughing profusely. Of course, he has been go go go since he was licensed and was working well into the nights trying to get new clients by doing his appraisals super fast. Although he's doing a great job because in the short week we've been in business he has three new clients and a ton of appraisal requests (part of that I'm sure being that the rates have been dropping like a swatted fly), he's also paying for it by continuing to get worse.
Yesterday I made him stay home most of the day and watch movies and veg, and today I'm quarantining him to the house. So, this morning I will have to go to church alone which I don't mind except it's redundant when I get asked three hundred times why Jake's not there. It just goes to show how much the people in our congregation care and I appreciate it, but for those of you who've been there it's always awkward when that one person lingers for a detailed explanation like they don't believe you and suspect that your husband is really bar-hopping on a Sunday morning. I'll let you know how it goes.
Time to stock up on Airborne and hand sanitizer!

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Heath Ledger Dies at age 28


Did you guys see this?? Evidently he was found in an apartment owned by Mary Kate Olsen with pills around the bed he was in---so police think it's an overdose. I don't mean to turn into miss pop culture but thought it was a simple enough post and would be good so y'all are up on the times. How sad though, I felt the guy was really talented---even if I haven't appreciated any of his movies since The Patriot.

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Mom's Mint Brownies

This is for you Lindsay! :)

This is a family favorite that we always make around the holidays. It used to seem like a much bigger project, but last week I made two batches and since it didn't seem that bad, I think I'll make them a lot more often! I will venture to say they are by far my number one favorite brownie. Period. That's how yummy they are...so if you love dark chocolate mint candies, cakes, etc. definitely give these a shot.

These are cooked on a jelly roll pan, so not only is it a HUGE batch, it yields about 64 brownies. That's why we always made them for the holidays; one batch is enough to give away to all your friends!

RECIPE

brownie layer:
8 squares unsweetened chocolate
3 cubes butter (1 1/2 Cups)
4 cups sugar
8 eggs
2 1/2 cups flour
1 tsp salt
1 tsp baking powder
2 tsp vanilla

Melt together chocolate squares with butter in a double boiler...or if you don't have one just make sure it barely melts the butter without boiling the chocolate. I can accomplish this even with my microwave if I just watch carefully. Mix in eggs and sugar, then fold in remaining ingredients. Bake at 350 for 30-35 minutes. Cool a little, but it's helpful if this layer is still a little warm to the touch because it helps smooth out the next layer.

mint frosting layer:

6 Tbsp butter
6 Tbsp cream (if you don't have it milk works fine)
1 box powdered sugar
1 tsp mint extract
3-4 drops green food coloring

You want this frosting to be stiff but still smooth. Add powdered sugar accordingly. When you spread it on the brownie layer, try your best to have the top as smooth as possible. Again, if the brownie layer is warm, it helps melt the frosting just enough to smooth the top out. Cool in freezer or refrigerator (I use freezer or in good ole' AK you can just put it out on your back deck) because it only takes about 20 minutes to get it cold enough. You want the frosting to be pretty hard.

dark chocolate layer:

6 Tbsp butter
6 squares unsweetened chocolate

Melt together in double boiler or (again) just barely melt butter in chocolate. Once you have the brownies cool and the frosting is pretty hard to the touch, it's ready for this final layer. This is the trickiest part because you want this to be a very glossed look. The easiest way I have found is starting in a corner of the pan, and using a large spoon to spoon on some of the chocolate mixture. Using the back of the spoon, spread a thin layer of the mixture, (thick enough to where you can't see the green frosting underneath). Adding spoonful at a time, smooth final layer on the brownies. Warning: Because the layer underneath is cold, work as quickly as you can because this will harden quickly and if you have to smooth over the hardened stuff it messes up the smooth look. Cool one more time for another 10 minutes.

Now, take a sharp knife, and a glass of hot water. Dipping the knife in the water every couple of cuts (and wiping the blade with a paper towel afterwards) cut your brownies. The hot knife keeps the top chocolate layer from cracking. Just a side note, my mom cuts all around the edges in about 1/4 inch and then cuts her squares because it makes for all the edge brownies to that that layered pretty look as well. The edges are still tasty and are perfect for your kids who probably don't care what they look like!

Monday, January 14, 2008

Great Start to 2008

WELL, it has been a stressful morning...for those of you who don't know, Jake has been waiting on the Real Estate Appraiser board for the state to issue his certification for two months now (we were supposed to hear back by end of November...that didn't happen!!) We were up against a ticking clock because if it wasn't issued at their semi-annual meeting Friday he would have to go to the new requirements for his certification...meaning thousands of dollars in classes and traveling to the classes, etc., at least six more months of being a trainee, NOT something we were looking forward to dealing with.

After not reaching the one and only woman that handles the licenses for appraisers at the state building all day Thursday, Friday, and this morning, I went for a hail mary and decided to just search for his name on the state professional licensing web site. Unexpectedly, there it was! His official certification meaning he is ready to start his business today. We are so relieved and so happy, and have designated the rest of today a big celebration so I am off to make reservations at his favorite restaurant (Sullivans) and surprise him tonight. (He doesn't read this so won't know). Have a great day--I know we will!

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

No one can say I didn't try

Last night around six, in the midst of a pretty big snowfall, I get a call from Jake and find out that he's working late and has to meet me at the gym for our tennis game at 7:30. Of course, when I found out I would be on my own for dinner all motivation to cook went right out the window.
So to occupy my time, I decide to go out and plow the driveway. In the two years of living at this place and owning a 4-wheeler with a homemade plow courtesy of Jake's engineering and hard work (he claims it's much better than the ones you can purchase and it was at a fraction of the cost) I have never started up this thing and ran it myself. Jake has given me the tutorial numerous times on how to start it in the cold, how to operate the plow, etc. but only 1/3 of that stuck.
After bundling up, complete with my snow pants I have maybe worn five times since living here, I go out, find the key in our secret hidden spot, and attempt to start it. As expected, the weather was very cold and the 4-wheeler wouldn't start. I try a few different buttons hoping it's the choke---but to no avail. FINALLY, after about twenty minutes of trying to just find the dang choke I locate it, and the tutorials come rushing back. Within thirty seconds, I have the 4-wheeler up and running, and while I'm trying to maneuver the machine through our porch posts out into the driveway, I look forward to see how the front is going to clear. As it was the first time I took a second to actually look forward, I quickly realized that there wasn't a plow on the front. My heart sank when I looked at the wall and see a very detached plow leaning against it. Then I remember Jake had taken it off last weekend to help Dad load up some firewood at an empty lot.
Oh well, I had the best intentions to do quite the deed for Jake...but I failed. No one can say I didn't try!! I guess in the future plowing the driveway will remain his sole responsibility.

Did you read about this yet?

My mom was forwarded this news article, and in turn sent it to me. This happened last Sunday. What's happening to this world when you aren't even safe going to church? This hit a little closer to home since I have a lot of family in Utah (including Lehi) and I am LDS... I got this article from the Salt Lake Tribune.
My heart goes out to that family and what they are going through right now.

Lehi police: Estranged husband gunned down wife outside LDS church
By Nathan C. Gonzalez The Salt Lake Tribune
Article Last Updated: 01/07/2008 11:51:04 AM MST

LEHI - David and Kristy Ragsdale were going through a contentious divorce, but in court last month they agreed to stay away from each other. Instead, the Draper man allegedly shot his wife to death here Sunday morning as she arrived at a local LDS church to attend services on her 30th birthday.
Kristy Ragsdale pulled into the crowded parking lot at 1691 E. 900 North around 11 a.m., planning to attend services with an unidentified acquaintance, said Sgt. Jeff Swenson, a police spokesman. About that time, the woman's estranged husband, David L. Ragsdale, drove up in a silver BMW, police said. The 35-year-old man allegedly then stepped out of the car and shot the mother of two multiple times with a 9 mm handgun.
"There was no confrontation, no nothing," Swenson said. "He suddenly opened fire."
David Ragsdale got back into his car and drove to the nearby Traverse Mountain area, police said. Lisa Dean was attending the service with her husband and two children. She said scriptures were suddenly halted by a church counselor, who told them someone had been shot in the parking lot.
"We said a prayer for the family and the children. People just sat there and cried," Dean said.
"You don't really ever hear of this kind of thing happening in Lehi or in Utah. It just doesn't feel right." Darrell Berry, first counselor in Lehi's 17th ward, had just finished a bishopric meeting at the time of the shooting. He said he rushed to aid another man giving Kristy Ragsdale CPR in the parking lot, which was littered with spent bullet casings.
"I didn't think we were going to have any success based on her wounds," he said. When police and paramedics arrived on scene around 11:10 a.m., Kristy Ragsdale, who had just turned 30 years old that morning, was pronounced dead.
Church officials then ordered people to leave the church as police began their investigation. Most people were forced to leave without their vehicles, as dozens of automobiles were quickly sealed inside the crime scene.
Police combed over the snow- and iced-covered parking lot with metal detectors searching for bullet casings. Other investigators climbed fire truck ladders and shot photographs from the air. David Ragsdale called the police station around noon and spoke to police Chief Chad Smith, who convinced the man to turn himself in, Swenson said.
"It's hard to comprehend what happened here today," the officer said.
Police continued to interview David Ragsdale into the evening, and he had not been charged in connection with the shooting. It is likely he will be charged with murder this week, Swenson said.
Authorities had responded to the Ragsdales' home for reports of domestic violence in the past, but nothing physical against Kristy Ragsdale or their two young sons, Swenson said. The children were at David Ragsdale's Draper residence at the time of the shooting.
Court records show that Kristy Ragsdale requested a temporary protective order from her husband on Dec. 4. David Ragsdale was served with the order on Dec. 7.
In District Court nearly two weeks later, Kristy and David Ragsdale entered into a mutual restraining order agreement as part of divorce proceedings, court records show. The temporary order was then dismissed. Neighbors said police were at the home the day David Ragsdale moved away.
"We loved Kristy; she was easy to love," said Kevin Malone, who lives near the Ragsdale home. "Kristy was very sociable . . . and very confident in herself." David Ragsdale worked at Investools, an investment education business in Draper, Malone said.
Kristy Ragsdale sang often in her ward and had "a beautiful voice," said fellow churchgoer Paul Baird, who was in the building at the time of the shooting.
"It has been a heart-wrenching day," he said.
Peggy Lowe, who lives next door to the church, said she remembers when the area was a quiet rural affair. Her neighborhood is new, and many of the houses have yet to be occupied. The church itself is only a year old.
Now the shooting has left that neighborhood shaken, Lowe said.
"It's sad that these kids lost two parents," she said.
The LDS Church declined to comment on the incident, said spokesman Scott Trotter.

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Yep, It's Bowl Week


Tonight, after finally reaching home after many errands, I walk in the back door and expect to hear a "Hi, honey, good to see you" or perhaps a "How was your day?" Oh, no...Instead, the following is a direct quote from my living room: "Gosh you idiot! You've only made that mistake three times!!! What are you thinking?!?! Had you just tucked it under and gone for it you would have had a first down!" This was Jake's reaction to the Kansas State vs. Virginia Tech Orange Bowl game (apparently somebody was doing something that didn't meet Jake's very high spectator expectations)
I then checked my DVR recordings and schedule to see over 18 hours of football games either recorded or scheduled to record in the next week.

Ah yes, it's that time again...Bowl Week. Maybe it will give me time to refine my Spider Solitaire skills.